What do you do when your girlfriend, fiance or even wife confesses to you that she was once in a threesome?
Why would she ever say that?
Well It’s most probably because she has being feeling guilty about it for a long time, and end up doing what a lot of women do naturally in today’s modern society.
She transfers her problem to a man.
A huge weight comes off her shoulders as the problem that was tormenting her for a long time is now…YOURS.
Of course she will say that she wants to be honest and truthful and wants to tell you everything, but deep down she knows it’s no longer her problem, but yours.
Now it’s your problem to grapple with as you decide to keep her or ditch her.
And if you do, she will most likely hold it against you and absolve herself of throwing a grenade in your relationship.
Wondering why she never said anything before and maybe suddenly just before your engagement or even wedding feels the need to tell you.
Well if it’s before a wedding, you may be lucky.
And still be in time to make an informed decision.
If it does not bother you, then all is good.
If it does bother you, as it probably would many, then you have to postpone any commitment and workout how you are going to deal with it.
And of course I would not recommend taking a light approach to any further commitment of any type other than casual.